3-21

Tomorrow is World Down syndrome Day - 3 copies of the 21st chromosome 3/21. Here is an update on all things Gabe. What's Gabe into? Gabe loves reading (on his own terms). He loves playing whiffle ball, but would rather toss to you and you hit the ball. He loves his stomp rocket. He loves dogs and babies. He loves his IPAD. He loves all things Toy Story. He loves routine and schedules and rewards. He loves friends (3 in particular) at school who play with him on his level. He loves going to the park and the zoo. He loves all things silly. He loves to say NO. He loves bowling. He loves watching his dad play wii. He loves watching his sister swim and do cartwheels. He loves going to the doctor. He loves making people proud. He loves music and dancing. He loves chips and french-fries. What's Gabe not into? Talking in long conversation to kids. He's very chatty with adults, but is quiet with his peers. I'm not sure if that's b/c he recognizes the difference and is aware it's harder for him, or if he's just shy. He doesn't like loud noises, however he's gotten much better with this and will remove himself from chaotic settings. He doesn't like demands. The key is tricking Gabe into thinking he's in control. Example: Gabe, sit at the table. you need to eat your breakfast. "NO!". Better example: Gabe, what chair do you pick to sit at the table? Maybe you can steal mommy's seat and that would be so silly. "(snicker) okay!". Eating - it's getting much better though. It's still work to him, but it now just requires reminders to take a bite, not a fight over getting him to chew. Some of this is Down syndrome. Some of this is 8 year old boy. Some of this is a shy and cautious kid. You gotta love him. "While I wouldn't change you for the world, I will change the world for you".